网恋不靠谱？那是你不知道这10个法门
Internet culture changes at a fast pace -- and so does online dating. Just like in the real world, there are certain styles and
approaches
to online dating.
互联网文化以飞快的速度发生着变化-网上约会就是其中一种。就像在现实世界中一样，网上约会是有一定的风格和方法的。
Dating website Zoosk recently studied more than 430,000 profiles and nearly 4 million messages to conclude how the most successful online daters do it.
约会网站Zoosk最近研究了约会网站上超过430000份的个人简介和近400万的信息，整理出了最成功的人是如何进行网上约会的。
1. Chat At Night
晚上聊天
According to Zoosk, women prefer late-night chatting between 10pm and 11pm.
据Zoosk所言，女性喜欢在深夜10点到11点之间聊天。
2. Keep Up With The Lingo
跟上术语
Make sure you have at least a
cursory
understanding of
slang
terms, so that your conversations don't end with you writing "lol. What does that mean?"
确保你至少对俚语有个粗略的了解，这样你们的谈话不会以“lol，这是什么意思？”而告终。
3. Kale Is Cool
健康是很酷的
Being healthy is cool -- one of the most used
buzzwords
in 2014 was
kale
.
健康是很酷的—2014最常用的术语之一是“甘蓝“”。
4. Choose Your Descriptors Carefully
仔细选择你的描述方式
The most used
descriptor
for 2014 was "laid-back." If you're calling yourself "laid-back," make sure it's the truth. Or come up with something more interesting to describe yourself.
2014年最常用的描述词是“随意的”。如果你想用“随意的”来描绘自己，就要确保这是事实。要不然就想出一些更有趣的词来形容你自己。
5. Be Honest About Your Past
诚实地对待你的过去
It can be hard to sum yourself up in one
blurb
, but there are things you can choose to say, and not say. Men who were honest and mentioned
exes
or
divorce
received 52% more messages than men who didn't.
在简介中总结自己是件难事，但有些事情你可以选择说或不说。诚实地提到过前妻或离婚的男性收到的消息比那些没有吐露的多52%。
6. Smile!
微笑！
As a general rule, smiling makes you more attractive when you're looking directly at someone, according to Psychological Science.. So good to be smiling in your profile pic.
据心理学所言，作为一个普遍规律，当你直视某人的时候，微笑会使你更具吸引力。所以，人物简介的照片中最好是微笑的样子。
7. Look Casual
表现得随意点
We all know you don't wear that
sleek
tux
every day.
我们都知道你不会每天穿着时尚礼服。
8. Selfies Are Over
别再用自拍了
Zoosk found that selfies decreased messages received by 8% and suggest that you get a friend to take a full body shot, which increased messages received by a massive 203%. And Zoosk says the bathroom selfie, in particular, is out for 2015 (thank goodness).
Zoosk发现，自拍照会使收到的信息减少8%，它建议你让朋友给你拍一张全身照，这样收到的信息会大大增加203%。另外，Zoosk还说，尤其是浴室自拍，到2015年的时候已经过时了。
9. Don't Hide
不要隐瞒
Men who "flew solo" in their photos received 42% and 53% more messages that guys who posed with friends or pets, respectively.
那些照片中只有自己的男性会收到的消息量比与朋友合照的男性多42%，比与宠物合照的男性多53%。
10.
Showcase
Your
Outdoorsy
Side
展示户外生活的一面
Your profile pic is the first thing a woman will see when she lands on your page, so make sure yours is having a positive impact.
你个人资料的照片是女性来你页面时看到的第一样东西。所以要确保你的照片能起到积极的影响。
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